I feel like at this time of year it’s so easy to get lost in all the hustle and bustle that comes with the holiday season. We spend so much time focusing on work parties, overnight guests, and finding that perfect present for our family members we forget that maybe all they really want or even need is our time. This year I wanted to be sure that one of the things I focused on was my family. Today for my Simplifying the Season series I have Brooke from Silver Lining sharing some thoughts on focusing on the family, all year long.
When I found out I was pregnant with twins, the name of the game at our house was simplifying. We consciously found ways to make our lives more simple and streamlined, which left more quality time for our family. Now that the twins are 3 months old, I’m getting back into a good groove with everything – and I’m so addicted to simplifying that I want to keep up our new habits.
I’m inspired by the idea that, as a mother and small business owner, I can do anything, but nobody can do everything. I have to pick what’s most important to me.
For example: I started paying every single bill automatically, online, the first day it comes out. Setting up auto bill pay has eliminated lots of time and mental energy that used to be spent remembering deadlines and writing e-checks each month.
It also means choosing what’s important. At a recent church party, I signed up to bring two dozen cookies. It was a crazy crazy week, and it came down to the last afternoon before the party. I knew I could either spend an hour making two dozen cookies, or I could spend that same hour comforting my very sad toddler. I chose my toddler, and we swung by the grocery store for two dozen cookies on the way to the party. And guess what? Nobody even cared that our cookies were store bought! Nobody even noticed! But I’m willing to bet my toddler noticed, and her day was noticeably different because I simplified and chose family.
These pictures are from a recent family walk we took in the beautiful Sonoran Desert. It’s right across the street from us, and we love to put everything down and just get outside for a little bit. Family walks are one of our favorite ways to simplify and be together as a family.
How are you simplifying this holiday season? How do you choose to focus on family?
Don’t forget to join along and let me know how you’re #SimplifyingTheSeason, then link up on December 26. I’ll be picking some of the posts that I think best exemplify the series to send a small gift to!
